Tuesday, May 1, 2012

Confused by Food, Part I

*If you read this entire post, I will be very impressed, and you will win a prize.* (a gold star by your name)

Oh, my friends, I am SO CONFUSED. I hardly know where to begin.
I did an adventure with unprocessed foods, which you can read about here, by trying to eat no processed sugar or flour for 10-14 days. Well, I made it 7 days, which I'm pretty satisfied with. I honestly don't know how I did it. Okay, I do. I did eat 1 slice of a friend's homemade bread made with 1 Tbsp of sugar and whole wheat flour. And I did eat copious amounts of "cookies" made with brown rice cereal, agave nectar, natural peanut butter, and semi-sweet chocolate chips (I couldn't make them ever stick together, so I ended up eating it with a spoon). Anyway, I am satisfied with my attempt, and I proved to myself that I could do it.
However, looking at labels during that week was really depressing. For example, I used a bouillon cube in a soup. Did you know that SUGAR is the second ingredient in a bouillon cube? In a bouillon cube?? Yup, that's right. Sugar is in salsa too, and even my Trader Joe's hummus! It's in everything. Kinda disturbing.
We also watched a documentary called Forks Over Knives (available on streaming on Netflix). It talks about "The China Study," about the incidence of cancer, which followed hundreds of people, watching their eating habits and testing various health indicators. Basically, they found that animal proteins cause cancer cells and lead to heart disease and diabetes. It's a whole book, which you can order here.
The documentary also talked about a study in mice. When mice were fed higher levels of animal protein had more cancer cells. When the same set of mice were fed fewer animal proteins for 2 weeks, their levels went down. I am not able to find a link for this study.
We also watched a documentary called Simply Raw: Reversing Diabetes in 30 Days. Truly fascinating, this movie followed 5 type II diabetics who ate raw (no meat, no caffeine, no sugar, no foods cooked over 118 degrees, etc) for 30 days and ALL of them stopped taking insulin, most within a week. You can see more here.
But here's where confusion begins to set in. There's this website, which says that Dr. Campbell's China study is wrong. And this scholarly article that says soy proteins cause cancer.
It seems that a whole-foods-plant-based-diet is the best, the most all-around healthy. That's how it was the Garden of Eden. But then again, I believe that after the Garden, God meant for us to eat meat. Not in the amounts we Americans eat today (bacon for breakfast, a hamburger at lunch, and grilled chicken at dinner). And definitely not corn-fed, abused, mis-treated, brutally slaughtered, hormone-filled animals who live their lives in tiny pens crowded together lying in their own excrement. (Reading The Omnivore's Dilemma is very disturbing!)
In the old days, let's say Adam's family (not to be confused with the Addam's family) killed a deer. No refrigerator, so it must be eaten that day. They share it with their family and family's family (community life!), so portions are small. They eat it all and then don't eat meat again until a week later when Adam gets lucky and chases down a wild boar.
Maybe silly, but they were probably mostly eating fruit and veggies. Maybe they even had a domesticated cow and drank milk. Or at least a goat with goat milk.
Here are some of the questions that kept me awake for an hour last night.
1. Meat or no meat? Is it better to eat (free-range, hormone-free, humanely-treated) unprocessed meat or the over-processed soybean that is turned into tofu? Do I want cancer cells from the meat, or cancer cells from the soy?
2. False sweeteners or real sugar? I love that Splenda has no calories, but it's processed and not "natural." But white sugar is processed too. I suppose the answer to this would be stevia, which I do love.
3. Is it even possible to eat raw and whole in America? We are thwarted at every turn: fast food joints on every block (that is no exaggeration in my town), grocery stores' merchandise, the food at my son's school's cafeteria, other people who don't even question what they put in their mouths (no judgment, I've been one of those people most of my life), the FDA (which approved "pink slime" for school cafeterias), genetically modified corn (did you know that farmers order the corn they plant by numbers such as "Pioneer Hi-Bred 34H31" [Pollan, The Omnivore's Dilemma, pg 63]). The people in the Simply Raw documentary lived for 30 days on a remote ranch with a gourmet vegan chef who prepared everything for them. I'm simply not sure that such a whole, raw diet is possible in urban America. Perhaps it is if you live rurally.
4. Vegan or vegetarian, or neither? I love to bake and cook. Can I really go without butter in my cookies? Or eggs in my cakes? Or cream to make a rich cajun pasta sauce? Or ... I could go on and on.
5. Is it healthy to eat proteins that are also carbohydrates as opposed to lean proteins? I love beans and sometimes lentils, barley, bulgar, edamame, and some whole wheat couscous. These have protein in them, but are also carbs. Will I become ever fatter if I don't eat lean meats?
6. Is there real truth when it comes to healthy foods? Or is there relative truth for each person. Shonda can never be vegan because she's allergic to soy. Diabetics have a conundrum: eat lean meats that have no carbs, as most doctors would recommend, or follow the whole-foods-plant-based diet, which does keep blood sugars more regular. I have high cholesterol: should I eat real butter which is natural, or margarine, which is processed and might have hydrogenated oils? Chad and I had an interesting philosophical, non-heated conversation this morning (rare!) about this: true truth or subjective truth when it comes to diet. He says it depends on each person's body make up, genetics (such as my high cholesterol), tolerances, allergens, etc. I'm not sure what I think.
7. Cow milk or soy, coconut, almond, or rice milk?
Let's just talk about milk for a minute. For many years, I've been wary of how much cow milk is pushed on children. An average pediatrician will tell you to put your weaned-from-breastmilk one-year old on to 2-3 cups of whole milk a day. "They need the calcium," I've been told. But whole milk comes from a 500-pound cow and was created to nourish and fatten a 90-pound calf. Not my 18-pound one-year old.
I'm not saying cow milk is bad, but is it good to push cow milk on these little kiddos? I'm just thinking out loud here; there is NO JUDGMENT coming from me.
God made everything good. If God made it, why can't we eat it (here, Chad played devil's advocate and said, "Well, God made opium, and we can't eat that." Thanks, Chad). Why not eat meat if God made it? Why not drink milk if God made the cow? Again, not the milk from the cow who spends her life eating corn, being injected with hormones, is confined to a tiny pen, walks in her own poop, and is hooked up a milking machine twice a day -- and then that milk is pasteurized, where it loses 20 % of its iodine and most of its other vital qualities.
Soy milk has more calcium than cow milk and has no casein in it. But soy milk is a false estrogen, potentially dangerous.
Coconut milk seems like a good option. So does almond milk. But both are pretty pricey. Not sure about rice milk. And Chad says, "Why drink milk at all?" I say, "Because it's delicious, especially chocolate milk." And do you really expect me to drink coffee with no creaminess in it?? Come on. And children do need calcium ... Right?
I also went to a women's health class last night. FASCINATING! Have you heard of the Diva Cup? Or a sea sponge? Or Glad Rags? Imagine all the landfill space we can save using natural and reusable options like this! And did you know that most lipsticks that have red coloring in them are cancer-causing? What? I've never thought about the cosmetics and skin care things I apply, but the skin is the largest organ of our bodies. I better think twice about what I put on my skin, face, and lips. The teacher gave us this to start with: http://www.ewg.org/.
That will have to be a part II of this.
I have now spent the last hour of my life compsosing this novel. I better go attend to my children, one of whom is up on the counter trying to get jelly beans from the cabinet, the other of whom is crying beside me and hitting my leg to get my attention. Poor things.
Your job: GIVE ME FEEDBACK ON THIS FOOD CONUNDRUM. Is there truth out there? Where do I find it? What should I eat?

Sunday, April 22, 2012

Business Announcement

Business Announcement
I'm WAY overdue in doing this, but I have a business announcement: I am now selling jewelry! It's one of those work-from-home businesses called Paparazzi Accessories. The best part of it all is this: EVERYTHING IS $5! Yup, you read that right: $5. Most of the necklaces come with matching earrings too.  It's so fun. Most of the items are trendy and spunky, with a few classic pieces thrown in. Here's a sampling of what I have in stock right now.
Browns 1:
Browns 2:
Brown 3:
Blacks 1:
Black 2:
Purples:
Hair clips (all the hair clips also have a pin on the back, so you can attach to a purse, hat, anything)
a sampling of the headbands (the headbands will fit baby girls or grown ups, and they're not tight enough to give you a headache like some headbands do):
rings 1:
rings 2:
bracelets 1:
bracelets 2:
silvers:
silver and whites:
earrings:
greens:
blues:
pinks:
reds:
Are you drooling as much as I am right now? How fun is this for new spring accessories? If you want something, let me know. I'm also toying with the idea of me mailing a box of things to a "distant hostess," who can host a party or showcase the box around for a week. Hostesses earn great rewards. Have I piqued your interest yet?

Tuesday, April 17, 2012

Unprocessed

Unprocessed Produce at Pike Place Market


The idea: I am launching into 10-14 days (we’ll see how far I can get!) of unprocessed foods. As natural and as whole as I can manage. It’s like the “caveman diet” you’ve heard of: eating unprocessed, whole foods. Mainly, I’m cutting out processed sugars and flours (those who know me well know how much I love cookies and other delicious processed items). It’s also the idea behind The Omnivore’s Dilemma, which I haven't even read, but really want to. There's also this article, which says it's great for heart health.

Why? I am inspired by Bridget, who did this for 10 days and stopped craving sugars and flours. And Bobbi who did it for a few months with a diet called Prism. And Rena, who is going vegan for 100 days (obviously, since I’m going for 10 days, I’m not as hard core as she is!). And Kirsten, who once did it for 30 days. It’s a kick-start to getting me un-addicted to sugars and fast foods, and of course, I’m hoping to get rid of the belly that plagues my daily existence.

The plan: Avoid processed foods (no more Ritz crackers, granola bars, coffee creamer, leftover Easter candy, breads, hamburgers, French fries, margarine, cookies, cinnamon rolls, donuts … sigh … I could go on and on). Stick with as whole as I can: real butter (but not in the amounts I’d really love to use), sprouted breads, lean meats, lots of fruit and veggies, you know, nature’s items. If I use something processed, I’m trying to stick with things with only a few ingredients (like Ezekiel bread, cottage cheese, cheese sticks, hummus). I got to go to Trader Joe’s this weekend, so I stocked up on fantastic items like sunflower seed butter, peanut butter with sugar added in it, hummus, etc.

But don’t worry folks, I’m not going too extreme: there will still be splenda in my coffee, half-and-half in my coffee, mayonnaise (not in my coffee), and a few diet cokes. Hey, at least I’m making steps in the right direction! Another “cheat” is going to be dark chocolate; I got some 72 % dark chocolate there. Mmmmm. Oh, and maybe some no-bake cookies made with oats, non-sugar peanut butter, honey or agave nectar, and dark chocolate chips.

The challenge: If you’d like to join me on this journey, let me know! I’m only on day two. There’s still time. Jump in!

Also, if you can think of other things to add to my list, please give me more ideas. I know I’m going to need more snack options.

The menu: see below. If you want recipes for specific items and they’re not already listed, let me know.

Breakfasts

Oatmeal sprinkled with almonds

Ezekiel bread (toasted)

Peanut butter banana smoothie (1 cup skim milk, 1 banana, 1 Tbsp peanut butter)

Chocolate smoothie (1 cup skim milk, 1 banana, 1 Tbsp cocoa, 1 Tbsp splenda)

Pear-ginger smoothie (3/4 cup skim milk, 1 cut pear, ¼ cup oats, 1 Tbsp cocoa, ½ tsp ginger)

Strawberry smoothie

Raisin bran cereal from Trader Joe’s

Eggs

Snacks

Celery sticks with hummus

Carrots sticks with salsa

Apples with peanut butter

Banana with peanut butter

Other fruit

Cottage cheese

Edamame

Cheesestick

Popcorn (not the drenched-in-butter kind!)

Sliced tomatoes

Cucumber

Almonds

Roasted kale chips

Lunches

Greek salad (lettuce, tomato, olives, red onion, avocado, feta cheese)

Salad with beans (lettuce, tomato, carrots, kidney beans)

Ezekiel bread with turkey slices

Tuna with mayo

Microwaved sweet potato with 1 Tbsp butter

Brown rice with tomatoes and basil

Wheatberry salad

Broccoli, orange, and olive salad (cooked cooled broccoli, fresh or mandarin orange slices, kalamata olives)

Cole slaw (shredded cabbage, carrots, grapes, and yogurt)

Dinners

Veggie and chicken stir fry

Tofu-barley-spinach soup (yes, I know tofu is processed, but ...)

Lemony bulgur, asparagus, and tilapia

Spinach salad with bulgur, salmon, and orange dressing

Cajun beans and rice (but without the andouille)

Zucchini and chicken curry

Mexican rice, beans, and avocado salad

Tabbouleh

Roased bell peppers stuffed with rice and feta

Roasted chicken, potatoes, and fennel bulbs

Roasted broccoli, okra, cauliflower, other veggies

Wednesday, April 11, 2012

It's official: I'm Catholic now / The Bullios' visit

I love this family so much. They have very dear friends of ours for a long time. I was thrilled when Bridget agreed to be my sponsor for joining the Catholic church this Easter because that meant they had to come visit us! I was even more thrilled when she asked me to be baby Jack's godmother. What an honor!
The Bullios arrived on Thursday morning, and the kids were immediately playing together, just like old times. Here's our attempt at getting them all to cooperate for a picture on the couch:
We went to "Monkey Park" on Saturday and rode the train:
And the kids played in the creek there:
And we had a yummy late lunch at Amsterdam Cafe.
That night was "Easter vigil," the Saturday night service that begins after dusk and carries on late into the night. It's usually when people are confirmed and baptized into the Catholic church. Normally, our kids are in bed and asleep at 8 (okay, okay, 8:30). This service began at 8, so it was rough. Here's Benji asleep on Chad in the cry room, and Luke making a tired face:
There's me up front in the yellow dress being confirmed into the church. That makes it official: I am now a Catholic lady! (I'll be happy to answer any specific questions about that, such as "Well, why'd ya do that?")
The prayer after confirmation:
Poor Ethan and Kate fell asleep in the cry room by 8:30:
My fabulous yellow dress with my fabulous husband:
The Bullios and us: what a tired bunch we were! (at the time of this picture, it was about 11:45!)
Here's sweet baby Jack and me. What a honor to be his godmother!
Here's a (slightly) more successful attempt at the couch picture. This was late Sunday morning after we'd all recovered from the late night before.
Easter Sunday, we did egg hunting:
and more picture-taking:
and egg-dyeing:
And then, Sunday evening, we said goodbye to our friends and watched them drive away into the darkness. Then we went back into the quiet and darkness of our home, immediately feeling an emptiness. The next day, I worked on cleaning up the aftermath. This the boys' room:
But don't worry, Bridge, it only took an hour to clean up everything. :)

Monday, April 9, 2012

Goals

Last week, I didn't accomplish much on my list, but I did relax and have a wonderful time with our dear friends, the Bullios. And that was way more important (and fun). They drove all the way from Florida to spend Easter with us. I will write all about that in another post.

Goals for last week:

finish reading Jungle Doctor to Ethan (only did 1 chapter)

finish reading The Lamb’s Supper

read 5 chapters of Creative Correction (uh, only one chapter)

walk a total of 20 miles (ha, that didn’t happen! I only did 6!)

read the passion in all 4 gospels (only Matthew and Mark. This would have been an easy one; I should have made that one a priority)

do 5 short Vindale surveys (did 4)

do 1 Panda survey

make business announcement

discuss summer plans with Chad and put things on calendar

put pictures on computer

prepare and mount new pictures on the wall

earn 100 swag bucks

watch Raw for 30 Days

Goals for this week (Chad is gone this week, a full 7 days, so I'm aiming high by even making a list. But I want lots of distractions this week so I don't get too lonely and restless, especially at night after the kids are in bed ... assuming I can even get them all to bed and asleep by myself).

read and do workbook pages for last session's Bible study

do blog post about the B’s

finish reading Jungle Doctor to Ethan

read pages 26-92 of Creative Correction

read the passion and resurrection in Luke and John

do 5 short Vindale surveys

do 1 Panda survey

put pictures on computer and edit

share pictures on snapfish and facebook

make business announcement

prepare and mount new pictures on the wall

earn 100 swag bucks (started at 152)

walk 4 miles, 10 mins abs

1 hour zumba, 10 mins abs

1 hour yoga

50 minutes on airclimber, 10 mins hula hoop (???)

watch last week’s and this week’s episode of Once Upon a Time

Sunday, March 18, 2012

Goals

Goals from two weeks ago (didn't do this last week)

1 hour walking with Nicole

1 hour on air climber

1 hour zumba

1 hour yoga or pilates

1 hour step aerobics

run 5 miles (okay, this was really ambitious. I did the first two miles without a problem

and even made good time. But the second two miles, I was pushing Benji in the stroller, and I was going up and down hills, both of which make running significantly harder. So I half-ran, half-walked the last two miles, and I will be satisfied with a total of 4 miles ).

check saving sites daily (moneysavingmom.com, southernsavers.com, freebieshark.com, swagbucks.com)

write a blog post about Martha

finish Shepherding A Child’s Heart (chapters 14-19)

read chapters 2-8 of Jungle Doctor to Ethan

call Christie, Bridget, Silvina, and Karen to catch up

finish reading the book of Revelation

read 2 chapters of The Lamb’s Supper

read new Bible study chapter

read and do workbook pages for Bible study

do birdseed craft with boys

do painting craft with boys

do this: http://www.couponsavingsclub.com/facebook-couponsavings-campaign&channel=13306&network=10&campaign=iq37&page_position=SCLUB_CJFB&creative=CJBN300X250FB500KB&call_to_action=fb&site=3125087

pay credit card bill

call Verizon: can we make our monthly payment lower?

record last video of home videos!

research Saint Elizabeth

calls stamps.com and get a refund!

research karate or soccer for Ethan

label photographs and put them in the photo album

clean inside and outside of car (well, get Chad to do it)

buy movie tickets for The Hunger Games!!!!

get cash out of the bank on the 1st or after for the next 2 weeks

Goals for this week

Dust the house

make bank deposit

PUT AWAY LAUNDRY!!!!

donate blood at Ethan’s school

clear desk

record last video of home videos

pay more on credit card

see The Hunger Games with friend Alicia

read new Bible study chapter

read and do workbook pages for Bible study

do birdseed craft with boys

finish reading The Lamb’s Supper

finish listening to The Help on audio (only 3 hours left, and I can barely put it down!)

read chapters 5-8 of Jungle Doctor to Ethan

check saving sites at least every other day (swagbucks.com, freebieshark.com, southernsavers.com)

50 mins air climber, 10 mins hula hoop

50 mins circuit training, 10 mins abs

run 4 miles, 10 mins abs

50 mins zumba, 10 mins abs

1 hour yoga or pilates

Saturday, March 3, 2012

Martha and Mary

Usually it's "Mary and Martha," so I'm switchin' it up. I've always been a little upset about the story of Martha and Mary in the Bible. Take a look: "Now as they were traveling along, he entered a village; and a woman named Martha welcomed him into her home. She had a sister called Mary, who was seated at the Lord's feet, listening to his word. But Martha was distracted with all her preparations; and she came up to him and said, 'Lord, do you not care that my sister has left me to do all the serving alone? Then tell her to help me.' But the Lord answered and said to her, 'Martha, Martha, you are worried and bothered about so many things, but only one thing is necessary; for Mary has chosen the good part, which shall not be taken away from her' " (Luke 10:38-42).
I'm completely sympathetic to Martha here. Of course she's irritated. Someone has to do the cooking, someone has to get everyone a drink of water, someone has to do the cleaning. Mary is just sitting there, not doing any work, knowing that Martha will take care of it all because that's what she does.
Then I feel guilty. I'm supposed to be more like Mary, right? After all, Jesus himself says that Mary's doing the better thing. But I can't just sit at the feet of Jesus all day; my kids would go hungry, they would wet their pants, laundry would pile up to the ceiling, and the boys would probably tear the house down.
Look at the great things that Martha did. In the passage above, it says that she "welcomed him into her home." That's a wonderful act. When Jesus spoke to her, he did so with kindness and compassion; he loved her immensely even as he chided her. In John 11:5, it says "Now Jesus loved Martha and her sister and Lazarus." Hmmm ... Mary isn't even mentioned by name in this version. In John 11:20, (Lazarus is dead, and there are mourners in the house of Martha and Mary), it says, "Martha, when she heard that Jesus was coming, went to meet him, but Mary stayed at the house." Martha left a houseful of guests and went out to meet Christ so she could be near him as soon as possible. She also has incredible faith: "Even now I know that whatever you ask of God, God will give you" (John 11:22) and "Yes, Lord, I have believed that you are the Christ, the Son of God, even he who comes into the world" (John 11:27). Mighty powerful words to speak for someone who isn't doing "the good part." Finally, in John 12:2, Jesus visits the town of Bethany a third time, "So they made him a supper there, and Martha was serving." And that's the last we hear of Martha in the Bible.
Let it be clear that I am NOT discounting Mary. I'm sure she was great. She anointed the feet of Jesus with very expensive perfume (John 11:2 and 12:3), was obviously humble, eager to soak up everything Jesus had to say, and she had immense faith. She also may have been the more well-known sister of the two ("Many of the Jews who came to Mary and saw what he had done, believed in him" John 11:45). Perhaps she was prettier and had a less brusque personality. I don't know.
What I do know is that I'm still far more sympathetic to Martha. I really like her. She's not a perfect lady, but she humbly accepts Jesus's chastisement, she does the dirty work, she's very hospitable, and she works incredibly hard in the background. She's no foreground kind of woman, no dainty lady with a pretty white dress on. She was probably the backbone of her family, dressed in drab gray with a greasy apron on, sweeping dirt off the floor, and shooing a chicken out of the kitchen. (And she's a patron saint of cooks and cooking. Pretty cool since I myself love to cook [and eat]).
While sitting at a table with some friends recently, I said, "I really sympathize with Martha, but I need to be more of a Mary." An older man said, "Why not be both? We need to have balance." I'd never heard anyone say that before. What a novel idea!
Is that it? Are my children the Jesuses in my life? Is the laundry, the cooking, the shopping, the paying bills ... are these the ways that I sit at the feet of Jesus? We are called to serve Christ, every moment of every day. That doesn't mean moving to a foreign mission field and setting up a clinic (not for me anyway). That means living your faith wherever you are, whoever you come into contact with, in everything you do! Does that mean that while I'm being a Martha, I am being a Mary too?
These are not rhetorical questions. Please help me figure this out!
I end with a quote from this article about Martha (which I recommend you read): "Wouldn't it be wonderful if the most important thing that could be said about us is 'They served'?" (John 12:2)